We may not all think the same way, but everyone has the aptitudes, innate and cultivated, needed for college-level learning.
我们未必想法一样,但是每个人都有他的才能、天性和修养,需要接受大学教育。
They have the wrong understanding of charm, the charm is a kind of personality, which is cultivated in the long way.
他们对魅力有着错误的认识,魅力是一种气质,需要长时间来培养。
In this sense, a child cultivated in this way may do very well in academics, but may not be a qualified citizen when he grows up.
从这个意义上看,用这种方法培养出来的孩子,学习可能是不错的,但长大以后不能成为合格的公民。